lesson #2 : cherish the people who are still in your life before its too late

lesson #1 : Love each other or perish. after so long, your smell still lingers.
u know how much I love e way you smell.
everywhere I go it reminds me of u.

I know I shld nt be thinking about u.
but suddenly, I realized how much I miss u.

if you can hear me, pls tell me if you are doing fine.

I know u won't be able to read this.
Tootpid(stupid) me :( sometimes I wander why you want me when u still throw temper to me? If u sincere wants to be with a girl, u will talk softly.... N take care of her... N not don't bothers...

this is so true..

有人说男人其实是最专一的.
因为从20岁到80岁的男人都喜欢20岁左右年轻漂亮的女人.
这是个笑话,但也是个事实.

有人说现在的年轻女孩都很现实,眼中没有爱情.
称着年轻嫁个有钱的,一辈子也就有个归宿了.


男人有时好比洋葱,要想看到洋葱的心就需要一层一层去剥。
但是女人在剥的过程会不断流泪剥到最后才知道，
原来洋葱是没有心的.
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Written at Monday, June 27 2011 1.28am

Quotes From You:

"Real loss only occurs when you lose something that you love more than yourself"

"Memories are the best souvenirs"

"I should have been more careful. I was blinded by your halo, so I never noticed the horns"

"Breaking up is not a stupid thing; instead it makes you a better person and realize your mistakes"

"Letting go of someone dear to you is hard, but holding on to someone who doesn't even feel the same is much harder. Giving up doesn't mean you are weak! It only means that you are strong enough to let go!"

"Someday we'll know if love can move a mountain. Someday we'll know why the sky is blue. Someday we'll know why I wasn't meant for you."

"Deep down you know it's best for yourself, but you hate the thought of that someone being with someone else."

"I wish you could look at me and see the person you once loved instead of the person you have grown to hate."

"The saddest love is to love someone, to know that they still want you, but the circumstances don't let you have them."

"If you ever get lonely and you want to see my face, look at the sky, smell the air, close your eyes, and you'll find me."
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♥♥ When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us. ♥♥ Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile. ♥♥ May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, enough hope to make you happy. ♥♥ The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

♥♥ Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear.

♥♥ The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

♥♥ When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.
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* Everything came too late
** Theres nth we can do
*** This might be Fate
**** We are meant to be Friends but not Lovers
***** A lesson Ive learnt
****** Express ur love bravely
******* b4 its too late

Dying inside cause I can't stand it
Make or break up
Can't take this madness

If you dont' know me at this point
Then I highly doubt you ever will

And I know we said let go
But I kept on hanging on

It cuts so deep
It hurts down to my soul

We both know our heart is breaking
Can we learn from our mistakes

希望你从这个世界上消失。
我不讨厌你，
真的不讨厌你。

心里很闷
想要跟人说说话
但有谁愿意听呢？

最深的秘密
对着别人，
我真的说不出口。
你能了解我的感受吗？

我总是在夜晚的时候想很多，也因为这样，经常失眠。
白天不想去想的事，到了晚上还是逃避不了。
其实，我也喜欢这样。
可以把一整天开心，不开心的事统统想一遍。
开心，会感恩。
不开心，会问自己为什么。
然后再想出个答案来。
把不开心的事忘掉，
第二天，又是一个新的开始。

“也许，有些事情不是渺小得可以控制与掌握。
但，至少我可以决定，
怎么看待自己的今天。”

人生就是為了找尋愛的過程

人生就是為了找尋愛的過程，

每個人的人生都要找到四個人

第一個是自己,

第二個是你最愛的人，

第三個是最愛你的人，

第四個是共度一生的人.

首先會遇到你最愛的人，然後體會到愛的感覺；

因為了解被愛的感覺，所以才能發現最愛你的人；

當你經歷過愛人與被愛，學會了愛，才會知道什麼是你需要的，

也才會找到最適合你，能夠相處一輩子的人。

但很悲哀的，在現實生活中，這三個人通常不是同一個人；

你最愛的，往往沒有選擇你；

最愛你的，往往不是你最愛的；

而最長久的，偏偏不是你最愛也不是最愛你的，

只是在最適合的時間出現的那個人。

你，會是別人生命中的第幾個人呢？

沒有人是故意要變心的，他愛你的時候是真的愛你，

可是他不愛你的時候也是真的不愛你了，

他愛你的時候沒有辦法假裝不愛你；

同樣的，他不愛你的時候也沒有辦法假裝愛你 。

當一個人不愛你要離開你，

你要問自己還愛不愛他，

如果你也不愛他了，千萬別為了可憐的自尊而不肯離開；

如果你還愛他，你應該會希望他過得幸福快樂，

希望他跟真正愛的人在一起，絕不會阻止，

你要是阻止他得到真正的幸福，就表示你已經不愛他了，

而如果你不愛他，你又有什麼資格指責他變心呢？

愛不是佔有，

你喜歡月亮，不可能把月亮拿下來放在臉盆裡，

但月亮的光芒仍可照進你的房間。

換句話說，你愛一個人，也可以用另一種方式擁有，

讓愛人成為生命裡的永恆回憶，

如果你真愛一個人，就要愛他原來的樣子─愛他的好，也愛他的壞：

愛他的優點，也愛他的缺點，

絕不能因為愛他，就希望他變成自己所希望的樣子，

萬一變不成就不愛他了。

真正愛一個人是無法說出原因的，

你只知道無論何時何地、心情好壞，你都希望這個人陪著你；

真正的感情是兩人能在最艱苦中相守，也就是沒有絲毫要求。

畢竟，感情必須付出，而不是只想獲得；

分開是一種必然的考驗，

如果你們感情不夠穩固，只好認輸，

真愛是不會變成怨恨的。

兩人在談情說愛的時候，

最喜歡叫對方發誓，許下承諾我們為什麼要對方發誓，

就是因為我們不相信對方，我們根本不相信情人，

而這些山盟海誓又很不切實際：

海枯石爛、地老天荒，都不能改變我對你的愛!

明知道海不會枯、石不會爛、地不會老、天不會荒；

就算會，也活不到那時候。

許下諾言的時候千萬注意，不要許下可以實現的諾言，

最好是承諾做不到的事，

反正做不到的，隨便說說也不要緊，

請記住：”不可能實現的諾言最動人”

在愛情裡，說的是一套，做的是另一套；

講的人不相信，聽的人也不相信。

你呢？找到了第幾個？

茫茫人海中，你遇見了誰？誰又遇見了你?
http://i387.photobucket.com/albums/oo320/myhideout_photos/tenki8.gif

i wanted to fight for it, but they told me i shld just give up and admit to fate.
*sigh*
i dun even have the mood to do anything, eat n sleep and it was meant to be a happy thing
*sob sob*

曾经有人说我是一个幸福的人。
因为我拥有全世界。
 
也有人问我后悔吗？
我认为路是自己选的。
人一定要往前看。

我曾经也觉得我是一个幸福的人。
就算是天塌陷下也没关系。
因为有你。

我们应该坚持自己想要的？
或者拥有自己应该拥有的？

幸福的定义又是什么？

进来做事力不从心。
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Random thoughts:

Disagreement over the same thing again and again. When can we reach a consensus over this issue?

Don't ask me what i want in life. It's too early for me to choose my path.

Quotes:

- Laugh as much as u breathe, love as much as u live.

- There are many things in live that will catch your eye, but only a few will catch your heart. Pursue those.

- Don't let life discourage you; everyone who got where he is had to begin where he was.
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我会学着放下我们..

共同的回已.

经历的过去.

拥有的快乐以悲伤.

忘记一个人很难.

但希望你也能学习放下.

唯有放下才能走得更远更快乐.

一定要过得比我幸福!!!