许愿者: 女儿，瑷菱
特别送给: 妈妈，林秀莲
许愿内容 : 想念我在天堂敬爱的妈妈！我的泪不停的流！妈妈我好想你，爱你！要永远记得我！
请你不要放弃，妈妈！ 我们永远记得你! 我们都好挂念你。
希望你在“极乐世界”过的很好，希望找到一个好男人！你受的苦，已经太多太多了。
希望你能够有所回报！
好想念你~ 好想看到你~ 不管爸爸怎样该，还是换不会你的命。
虽然人要往前看，但是还没来得及做她孝顺的女儿。 好多东西还没跟妈妈学，
她煮的耶浆饭（Ｎａｓｉ－Ｌｅｍａｋ），炸酱面，芋尼圈（ＹａｍＲｉｎｇ），炒米粉，鸡饭，
叉烧烧肉饭， 绿豆汤，红豆汤，莲藕汤，玉蜀黍汤，ＡＢＣ汤，炒伊面， 鸡蛋面，
酿豆腐， 垃圾桶菜（ｃａｒｒｏｔ ｐｌｕｓ ｃａｂｂａｇｅ）ＬＯＬ，炒果条，炒萝卜糕， ｌａｋｓａ，
ｃｕｒｒｙ， ｓｗｅｅｔ ｐｏｔａｔｏ ｓｏｕｐ， ｐｏｒｒｉｄｇｅ， ｅｇｇ ｃｏｖｅｒ ｍｉｎｃｅｄ ｍｅａｔ，
ｐｏｒｋ ｃｈｏｐ， ｓｗｅｅｔ ＆ ｓｏｕｒ ｐｏｒｋ， ｃｅｒｅａｌ ｐｒａｗｎ， ｂａｋ ｋｕｅ ｔｅｈ， ｃｒａｂ，
ｋａｎｇ ｋｏｎｇ， ｓｐａｇｅｔｔｉ， ｗａｎｔｏｎ ｎｏｏｄｌｅ， ｆｒｉｅｄ ｒｉｃｅ， ｌａｌａ ｗｉｔｈ ｃｈｉｌｌｉ，
ｆｒｉｅｄ ｈｏｋｋｉｅｎ ｐｒａｗｎ ｎｏｏｄｌｅ， ｄｕｍｐｌｉｎｇｓ（肉棕）， 罗米饭，
ＣＮＹ ｃｏｏｋｉｅｓ －ｌｏｖｅ ｌｅｔｔｅｒｓ， ｃｏｏｋｉｅｓ（ｂｅｅ ｈｏｌｅ），
ｓｍａｌｌ ｓｐｒｉｎｇ ｒｏｌｌ ｗｉｔｈ ｂａ ｈｕ．
Ａｎｄ ｍａｎｙ ｍａｎｙ ｍｏｒｅ， ｇｏｔ ｔｉｍｅ ｔｈａｎ ｗｒｉｔｅ ｏｕｔ ａｌｌ． ｔｏ ｂｅ ｃｏｎｔｉｎｕｅｄ．．．．．
妈妈我爱你！！！ ：）
Wednesday, September 15, 2010
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
Nanny @ Home days....
Im sick and tired coz even when my working days, plus half work half study, before exam or what. i also need to look after my aunt kids, it becomes my responsibilities. Starting I feel is ok, becasue is kind of learning process, and experiences in how to look after kids, and also will think that looking after a kid nowadays is not easy. I am stressed about this matter for quite long le... Don't know what should I do? Move back home or continue looking after 3 kids(im become their nanny)
They not automatic to go bathe and eat their lunch.
Normally every Fri, if Im available->even i need ot, i also never ot..... scarifie so big u see.... Well, I will go Yew Tee buy their dinner, than rush to fetch my cousin-carina from sch @ 6.30pm. Than bring her home,--> ask them to bathe-->hard to move also.... ask them to eat--> hard to move also..... because if they never bathe, i can't wash clothes and hang it.... if they never eat, I can't finished my task, which is wash bowl and plates etc.... I have to fold clothes too....
As for Saturday and Sunday, luckily nowadays my aunt some sat and sunday never work.. Not all 3 days she work for every week.. So when my aunt never work that day, I will be going out to relax.... For Saturday, my task is wake up in morning around 9 or 10 plus see got breakfast or not... If don't have, than I go fajar shopping center to buy breakfast, sometimes lazy or not free to walk 2 times, I buy lunch straight away. If not lunch time come out and buy their lunch again.
When I bUY back either breakfast or lunch or both.... I ask them eat, they will faster go eat when their parents are around, scare being beat ma....Than when their parents go out le, than they start to not obidient.... Haiz... ASK THEM bathe from 11 to 12plus, they can say wait wait wait, drag until 4 to 5 plus... than I will be late wash clothes.... Lunch sometimes they eat very late late 2 to 3 plus.... their meal are disorder... So angry bec if they 3 havent eat--> I can't clear and wash the bowl and plates on the basin..... clean the table etc..... If they 3 havent bathe, I can't put the clothes to washing machine to start spinning etc... Than my own things no need to do le... Thinking of every time like this, my life are so boring.... and feel so sleepy, life so meaningless... Not bec I don't or not willing to look after... Seriously I like their 3 kids too.. I dotw on them too, will help them celebrate their birthday, give them treats too, include my aunt and uncle.
I dun mind all this, the most difficult and miserable thing is that their kids not still kids, they can auto go and bathe, auto eat during every meal... Sometimes I ask them to eat, the 2 guys will ask me shut up and go away. Say i'm disguisting or saying i nagging.... Ya, I may keep repeating the words i say, go eat go eat, if never eat I call ur dad... I had no choice to say that..... I got my own things to do, sometimes I really feel that weekdays work work work ot ot ot, only weekends can relax.... But for me weekends is my nightmare.. is not i not willing to look after. Is just that this is not my responsibilities to teach their kids to shut down computer etc.... If they willing to listen to me, I dun mind, they are n\big enough.. I don't think I have the energy to keep repeating the things that I say..
Sometimes really makes me fed up.... headache..... even fri, sat and sunday I dun have my free time.... I can help to look after but at least appreciate what I done.. But my uncle don't seems to appreciate... My aunt work, is my uncle responsible to look after their own kids...
I don wanna and hate that if their kids not behave well or results drop blame on us never teach them good, only teach them bad....
Ya. Although we 3 , my both parents never taught us about life process and meaning of life... Do or dont etc... but at least we don't blame our parents for not teaching us good. ACTUALLy, partly good or bad also influence by friends etc.... we really can't predict what will happen the next day or even the next second or next minute. Nobody knows...
I feel stress to look after them is because the 2 boys playing computer, sometimes not happy will fight and scold vulgar-backwords to one another, until both fights, one time both take knife... That's my fear and worries... I can't afford to be responsible if anything happens to them...
I can help to look after for a period of time but not every fri, sat n sunday continue for few years.... And i really cannot fully concentrade, even at night sleep i will think of this fri, sat and sun need to look after kids, headache, coz they not follow my instructon, and their father so relax go turf club bet horse.... so enjoy.. I no obligations that to stop him relax, enjoy... Everybody need to relief their stress after weekdays work......but he should think of hire a maid ba!
I'm still young, I don't want to been tight down by kids kids kids.... If is my own kids, I of coure have to look after myself.....
I really need to stop all this, because I intend to fully concentrade on my work, my studies(intend to study ACCA) SO MUST concentrade... The time spend really not little as what u all think.. Is not so easy.. time consuming... I can't study if my mind is not there.. Is kind of stress stress stress..
What Shall I do? God?
Going home soon in 25 mins later.... Bye Bye!
Life so boring and meaningless for irene!
They not automatic to go bathe and eat their lunch.
Normally every Fri, if Im available->even i need ot, i also never ot..... scarifie so big u see.... Well, I will go Yew Tee buy their dinner, than rush to fetch my cousin-carina from sch @ 6.30pm. Than bring her home,--> ask them to bathe-->hard to move also.... ask them to eat--> hard to move also..... because if they never bathe, i can't wash clothes and hang it.... if they never eat, I can't finished my task, which is wash bowl and plates etc.... I have to fold clothes too....
As for Saturday and Sunday, luckily nowadays my aunt some sat and sunday never work.. Not all 3 days she work for every week.. So when my aunt never work that day, I will be going out to relax.... For Saturday, my task is wake up in morning around 9 or 10 plus see got breakfast or not... If don't have, than I go fajar shopping center to buy breakfast, sometimes lazy or not free to walk 2 times, I buy lunch straight away. If not lunch time come out and buy their lunch again.
When I bUY back either breakfast or lunch or both.... I ask them eat, they will faster go eat when their parents are around, scare being beat ma....Than when their parents go out le, than they start to not obidient.... Haiz... ASK THEM bathe from 11 to 12plus, they can say wait wait wait, drag until 4 to 5 plus... than I will be late wash clothes.... Lunch sometimes they eat very late late 2 to 3 plus.... their meal are disorder... So angry bec if they 3 havent eat--> I can't clear and wash the bowl and plates on the basin..... clean the table etc..... If they 3 havent bathe, I can't put the clothes to washing machine to start spinning etc... Than my own things no need to do le... Thinking of every time like this, my life are so boring.... and feel so sleepy, life so meaningless... Not bec I don't or not willing to look after... Seriously I like their 3 kids too.. I dotw on them too, will help them celebrate their birthday, give them treats too, include my aunt and uncle.
I dun mind all this, the most difficult and miserable thing is that their kids not still kids, they can auto go and bathe, auto eat during every meal... Sometimes I ask them to eat, the 2 guys will ask me shut up and go away. Say i'm disguisting or saying i nagging.... Ya, I may keep repeating the words i say, go eat go eat, if never eat I call ur dad... I had no choice to say that..... I got my own things to do, sometimes I really feel that weekdays work work work ot ot ot, only weekends can relax.... But for me weekends is my nightmare.. is not i not willing to look after. Is just that this is not my responsibilities to teach their kids to shut down computer etc.... If they willing to listen to me, I dun mind, they are n\big enough.. I don't think I have the energy to keep repeating the things that I say..
Sometimes really makes me fed up.... headache..... even fri, sat and sunday I dun have my free time.... I can help to look after but at least appreciate what I done.. But my uncle don't seems to appreciate... My aunt work, is my uncle responsible to look after their own kids...
I don wanna and hate that if their kids not behave well or results drop blame on us never teach them good, only teach them bad....
Ya. Although we 3 , my both parents never taught us about life process and meaning of life... Do or dont etc... but at least we don't blame our parents for not teaching us good. ACTUALLy, partly good or bad also influence by friends etc.... we really can't predict what will happen the next day or even the next second or next minute. Nobody knows...
I feel stress to look after them is because the 2 boys playing computer, sometimes not happy will fight and scold vulgar-backwords to one another, until both fights, one time both take knife... That's my fear and worries... I can't afford to be responsible if anything happens to them...
I can help to look after for a period of time but not every fri, sat n sunday continue for few years.... And i really cannot fully concentrade, even at night sleep i will think of this fri, sat and sun need to look after kids, headache, coz they not follow my instructon, and their father so relax go turf club bet horse.... so enjoy.. I no obligations that to stop him relax, enjoy... Everybody need to relief their stress after weekdays work......but he should think of hire a maid ba!
I'm still young, I don't want to been tight down by kids kids kids.... If is my own kids, I of coure have to look after myself.....
I really need to stop all this, because I intend to fully concentrade on my work, my studies(intend to study ACCA) SO MUST concentrade... The time spend really not little as what u all think.. Is not so easy.. time consuming... I can't study if my mind is not there.. Is kind of stress stress stress..
What Shall I do? God?
Going home soon in 25 mins later.... Bye Bye!
Life so boring and meaningless for irene!
Monday, September 13, 2010
Planning for the free time during short break
As my last day @ G & W will be on 22 September 2010. My new starting phase of career plus new working environment starts on 4th October 2010... Very excited, and looking forward to that day, hope everything really go smooth for me! Colleagues and boss there friendly, caring ba! I can say I'm not a fast learner, need them to guide me along and please give me patience if I had done anything mistake... Kindly to seek for your forgiveness and willing to change...
Meanwhile, during this 23 September - 3 October 2010(less than 2 weeks) a short break!
I need to planned my time... erm... Intend to go for Lee wei song school of music @ PICO building - lavendar! Studio recording in a CD album..... I'm looking forward thou....
Hope really every thing well smoothly for me!
Give me courage and let me have the confidence to sing infront of many many people so that I am happy. At least I pass my own stage.... Mum know le, also will be happy...
During this period, I would really need to relax and destress myself before starting a new job....
Where can I go? What can I do? No. Dont ask me to look after kids thou. Haha......
Meanwhile, during this 23 September - 3 October 2010(less than 2 weeks) a short break!
I need to planned my time... erm... Intend to go for Lee wei song school of music @ PICO building - lavendar! Studio recording in a CD album..... I'm looking forward thou....
Hope really every thing well smoothly for me!
Give me courage and let me have the confidence to sing infront of many many people so that I am happy. At least I pass my own stage.... Mum know le, also will be happy...
During this period, I would really need to relax and destress myself before starting a new job....
Where can I go? What can I do? No. Dont ask me to look after kids thou. Haha......
Ｂａｃｋ ｆｒｏｍ ｌｕｎｃｈ
Back from lunch, feeling very tired and sleepy right now! ZzZzzZz
Actually, before my mum passed away, she keep hinting us that she is not happy with her marriage..... She ask me cannot find a future husband that have wifes de. 千万不可以找有老婆的男人！
那时我只听而已！根本不明白她的意思！现在我才了解她的意思。可是太迟了，我的妈妈有告诉她的好朋友：“等我们三个二十一岁就会跟爸爸离婚”。 那时我刚过二十一岁！最小的弟弟才十五岁，第二弟弟十八岁！ 我们真的已到崩溃的日子，好伤心，痛苦。
有一首歌，歌词很有意思。
世上只有妈妈好！
世上只有妈妈好， 有妈的孩子像个宝。
投进妈妈的怀抱， 幸福享不了
世上只有妈妈好， 有妈的孩子像个宝。
投进妈妈的怀抱， 幸福享不了
没有妈妈最苦恼， 没妈的孩子像根草。
离开妈妈的怀抱， 幸福哪里找
没有妈妈最苦恼， 没妈的孩子像根草。
离开妈妈的怀抱， 幸福哪里找
Ｓｏ ｉｓ ｔｒｕｅ！ ：(
I have this feeling already!
Actually, before my mum passed away, she keep hinting us that she is not happy with her marriage..... She ask me cannot find a future husband that have wifes de. 千万不可以找有老婆的男人！
那时我只听而已！根本不明白她的意思！现在我才了解她的意思。可是太迟了，我的妈妈有告诉她的好朋友：“等我们三个二十一岁就会跟爸爸离婚”。 那时我刚过二十一岁！最小的弟弟才十五岁，第二弟弟十八岁！ 我们真的已到崩溃的日子，好伤心，痛苦。
有一首歌，歌词很有意思。
世上只有妈妈好！
世上只有妈妈好， 有妈的孩子像个宝。
投进妈妈的怀抱， 幸福享不了
世上只有妈妈好， 有妈的孩子像个宝。
投进妈妈的怀抱， 幸福享不了
没有妈妈最苦恼， 没妈的孩子像根草。
离开妈妈的怀抱， 幸福哪里找
没有妈妈最苦恼， 没妈的孩子像根草。
离开妈妈的怀抱， 幸福哪里找
Ｓｏ ｉｓ ｔｒｕｅ！ ：(
I have this feeling already!
Missing MUM badly
I miss my mum badly, but I can feel my mum always beside me, I almost every week dream of her, but sometimes wake up cant't remember what I dreamt of ?
This morning, my cousin mum(my gugu) call me, his only son married on 3 Oct 2010 held at Fullerton Hotel ballroom. Is really grand....... She invited us go to his buffet lunch at her house. She wanted us to go together with my father. She told us to give her face, ask us must go. And she mentioned she dreamt of my mother 3 times, I ask her what she dream, she start to cry, she don't wish to tell me.. I was really curious what she dreamt of. She say my mum 交代something to her.
I was like suddenly feel like crying. Bec we kids should be the most suffer ba! And nobody know what our heart thinks？ Only know how to say just forget the past bad things my father do... But my father really until now dont realise is his fault u know. That makes us can't forgive him, because he didnt even want us to forgive him.
I intend to move back own house, currently me and my younger bro staying at my aunt house already for 2 years 3 months. Time flies, but I really missed my home.. My aunt and uncle treat us well too. But I feel own house is more warmth. Bec my mum is at home.... Bec of my stupid brain dad, makes things worst and complicated.
And become we got home also cant go back home.... Dad keep nagging, own fault than blame people.... Can't he feel abit shameful for himself and just keep quiet! I wanted to make clear things that is my father chase us out of the house than we move out.. That period everybody in our house very suffered... My dad nagged, than my work also cannot concentrade, everyday headache, keep think think think... And My mum passed away that period, I not myself, I dont believe, its so sudden. As I come back from working NTUC, I reach home at night 11 plus on 27 Jan 2008, Sunday. Chat with my mum awhile than I feel tired than sleep. I slept in same room, same bed with my mum. I believe my mum in the middle of the midnight around 1 or 2 plus knock off in the toilets... But I really never heard any noise, maybe I was too tired, that's y. She was not feeling well for the past 1 week.... i was so regret for not taking good care of her. Never bring her go see doctor and never care her.. I was really really so regret....:（
And if everytime i go genting, i so regret, I never go genting with my mother before. So will regret for not doing or going anywhere with her.. I will think of my mum more when the places i never go with my mum before. like also regret for not taking more photos with her....
I hope my mother will let me dream of her, tell me what she needs and wants, so that I will try to help her lessen her worries or troubles. To fulfil what she wants... I'm serious! I just hope my mum can leave better either in heaven or hell. I just want my mum to know I miss her badly, hope she can bless me and my 2 brothers everything go smooth and bless that father will know his mistake and not nag again.
The most important thing is if one day we 3 move back to own house, my father will not bring over the batam kids or mistress into our house.. Coz I will treat them transparent. That time don't blame me for doing nasty things on them.
I will treat it I never know and never aware of this issue.
That is the path my dad chose, so he had to bear the consequences. Not after my mum passed away than he find another wife/women. This is can't forgiveable. Ridiculous, stupid act he had done.... Mum suffered so many years.....太委屈妈妈了！我觉得妈妈比我想象中更坚强，更勇敢！我真的佩服她！还被爸爸唉骂！爸爸真的不知羞耻！ 为妈妈感到非常难过，伤心！
虽然爸爸有养家，那又怎样呢？ 他不尊敬我的妈妈！你们觉得，有养家就好，那你们想想，换成是你们的老公，你们会开心的过日子吗？ 没办法！
爸爸的情况不是在外面偷吃！这可是他们还没结婚就开始了！为何爸爸不能在两个女人中选一个呢？
搞到事情这么复杂，搞到没有妈妈，是我们孩子最难过，最无辜的。
ｂａｔａｍ 的女人是会做疆头，我觉得妈妈的死，就是那女的做的！ 我真的希望有因果报应！
老天爷，请你帮帮我！ 是不是那女人在搞怪！让老天爷处罚！
谢谢！
现在我只希望我妈妈会过的很好，希望她找到对他好的男人！不要再受委屈了！
让妈妈每天都快快乐乐， 开开心心！ 希望她找到贵人相助！
好怀念我的母亲，怀念和她在一起的日子！ 辛苦她了！这么多年的照顾，我还来不及孝顺她，她就走了！
以前妈妈几乎每天都下厨，我可以说她煮的晚餐天天都好吃，到没话说！她天天都有煮汤！好喝级了！
家务事都是妈妈一个人在做！抹地，洗衣，则衣，晾衣，煮，打扫，油气 等等。
最怀念的事，当我放工回家时，有时候，妈妈会帮我拔眉毛， 洗指甲油，涂指甲油－－－〉 太舒服了，到我睡着了！ 妈妈成经告诉我，你这样依赖我，那如果我死了，怎样办？ 那时，我还不明白她的意思！我真的够笨！嗨！
不说了，要吃饭了！
ｂｙｅ ｂｙｅ！
This morning, my cousin mum(my gugu) call me, his only son married on 3 Oct 2010 held at Fullerton Hotel ballroom. Is really grand....... She invited us go to his buffet lunch at her house. She wanted us to go together with my father. She told us to give her face, ask us must go. And she mentioned she dreamt of my mother 3 times, I ask her what she dream, she start to cry, she don't wish to tell me.. I was really curious what she dreamt of. She say my mum 交代something to her.
I was like suddenly feel like crying. Bec we kids should be the most suffer ba! And nobody know what our heart thinks？ Only know how to say just forget the past bad things my father do... But my father really until now dont realise is his fault u know. That makes us can't forgive him, because he didnt even want us to forgive him.
I intend to move back own house, currently me and my younger bro staying at my aunt house already for 2 years 3 months. Time flies, but I really missed my home.. My aunt and uncle treat us well too. But I feel own house is more warmth. Bec my mum is at home.... Bec of my stupid brain dad, makes things worst and complicated.
And become we got home also cant go back home.... Dad keep nagging, own fault than blame people.... Can't he feel abit shameful for himself and just keep quiet! I wanted to make clear things that is my father chase us out of the house than we move out.. That period everybody in our house very suffered... My dad nagged, than my work also cannot concentrade, everyday headache, keep think think think... And My mum passed away that period, I not myself, I dont believe, its so sudden. As I come back from working NTUC, I reach home at night 11 plus on 27 Jan 2008, Sunday. Chat with my mum awhile than I feel tired than sleep. I slept in same room, same bed with my mum. I believe my mum in the middle of the midnight around 1 or 2 plus knock off in the toilets... But I really never heard any noise, maybe I was too tired, that's y. She was not feeling well for the past 1 week.... i was so regret for not taking good care of her. Never bring her go see doctor and never care her.. I was really really so regret....:（
And if everytime i go genting, i so regret, I never go genting with my mother before. So will regret for not doing or going anywhere with her.. I will think of my mum more when the places i never go with my mum before. like also regret for not taking more photos with her....
I hope my mother will let me dream of her, tell me what she needs and wants, so that I will try to help her lessen her worries or troubles. To fulfil what she wants... I'm serious! I just hope my mum can leave better either in heaven or hell. I just want my mum to know I miss her badly, hope she can bless me and my 2 brothers everything go smooth and bless that father will know his mistake and not nag again.
The most important thing is if one day we 3 move back to own house, my father will not bring over the batam kids or mistress into our house.. Coz I will treat them transparent. That time don't blame me for doing nasty things on them.
I will treat it I never know and never aware of this issue.
That is the path my dad chose, so he had to bear the consequences. Not after my mum passed away than he find another wife/women. This is can't forgiveable. Ridiculous, stupid act he had done.... Mum suffered so many years.....太委屈妈妈了！我觉得妈妈比我想象中更坚强，更勇敢！我真的佩服她！还被爸爸唉骂！爸爸真的不知羞耻！ 为妈妈感到非常难过，伤心！
虽然爸爸有养家，那又怎样呢？ 他不尊敬我的妈妈！你们觉得，有养家就好，那你们想想，换成是你们的老公，你们会开心的过日子吗？ 没办法！
爸爸的情况不是在外面偷吃！这可是他们还没结婚就开始了！为何爸爸不能在两个女人中选一个呢？
搞到事情这么复杂，搞到没有妈妈，是我们孩子最难过，最无辜的。
ｂａｔａｍ 的女人是会做疆头，我觉得妈妈的死，就是那女的做的！ 我真的希望有因果报应！
老天爷，请你帮帮我！ 是不是那女人在搞怪！让老天爷处罚！
谢谢！
现在我只希望我妈妈会过的很好，希望她找到对他好的男人！不要再受委屈了！
让妈妈每天都快快乐乐， 开开心心！ 希望她找到贵人相助！
好怀念我的母亲，怀念和她在一起的日子！ 辛苦她了！这么多年的照顾，我还来不及孝顺她，她就走了！
以前妈妈几乎每天都下厨，我可以说她煮的晚餐天天都好吃，到没话说！她天天都有煮汤！好喝级了！
家务事都是妈妈一个人在做！抹地，洗衣，则衣，晾衣，煮，打扫，油气 等等。
最怀念的事，当我放工回家时，有时候，妈妈会帮我拔眉毛， 洗指甲油，涂指甲油－－－〉 太舒服了，到我睡着了！ 妈妈成经告诉我，你这样依赖我，那如果我死了，怎样办？ 那时，我还不明白她的意思！我真的够笨！嗨！
不说了，要吃饭了！
ｂｙｅ ｂｙｅ！
Quite True....
人生就是為了找尋愛的過程，
每個人的人生都要找到四個人
第一個是自己,
第二個是你最愛的人，
第三個是最愛你的人，
第四個是共度一生的人.
首先會遇到你最愛的人，然後體會到愛的感覺；
因為了解被愛的感覺，所以才能發現最愛你的人；
當你經歷過愛人與被愛，學會了愛，才會知道什麼是你需要的，
也才會找到最適合你，能夠相處一輩子的人。
但很悲哀的，在現實生活中，這三個人通常不是同一個人；
你最愛的，往往沒有選擇你；
最愛你的，往往不是你最愛的；
而最長久的，偏偏不是你最愛也不是最愛你的，
只是在最適合的時間出現的那個人。
你，會是別人生命中的第幾個人呢？
沒有人是故意要變心的，他愛你的時候是真的愛你，
可是他不愛你的時候也是真的不愛你了，
他愛你的時候沒有辦法假裝不愛你；
同樣的，他不愛你的時候也沒有辦法假裝愛你 。
當一個人不愛你要離開你，
你要問自己還愛不愛他，
如果你也不愛他了，千萬別為了可憐的自尊而不肯離開；
如果你還愛他，你應該會希望他過得幸福快樂，
希望他跟真正愛的人在一起，絕不會阻止，
你要是阻止他得到真正的幸福，就表示你已經不愛他了，
而如果你不愛他，你又有什麼資格指責他變心呢？
愛不是佔有，
你喜歡月亮，不可能把月亮拿下來放在臉盆裡，
但月亮的光芒仍可照進你的房間。
換句話說，你愛一個人，也可以用另一種方式擁有，
讓愛人成為生命裡的永恆回憶，
如果你真愛一個人，就要愛他原來的樣子─愛他的好，也愛他的壞：
愛他的優點，也愛他的缺點，
絕不能因為愛他，就希望他變成自己所希望的樣子，
萬一變不成就不愛他了。
真正愛一個人是無法說出原因的，
你只知道無論何時何地、心情好壞，你都希望這個人陪著你；
真正的感情是兩人能在最艱苦中相守，也就是沒有絲毫要求。
畢竟，感情必須付出，而不是只想獲得；
分開是一種必然的考驗，
如果你們感情不夠穩固，只好認輸，
真愛是不會變成怨恨的。
兩人在談情說愛的時候，
最喜歡叫對方發誓，許下承諾我們為什麼要對方發誓，
就是因為我們不相信對方，我們根本不相信情人，
而這些山盟海誓又很不切實際：
海枯石爛、地老天荒，都不能改變我對你的愛!
明知道海不會枯、石不會爛、地不會老、天不會荒；
就算會，也活不到那時候。
許下諾言的時候千萬注意，不要許下可以實現的諾言，
最好是承諾做不到的事，
反正做不到的，隨便說說也不要緊，
請記住：”不可能實現的諾言最動人”
在愛情裡，說的是一套，做的是另一套；
講的人不相信，聽的人也不相信。
你呢？找到了第幾個？
茫茫人海中，你遇見了誰？誰又遇見了你
每個人的人生都要找到四個人
第一個是自己,
第二個是你最愛的人，
第三個是最愛你的人，
第四個是共度一生的人.
首先會遇到你最愛的人，然後體會到愛的感覺；
因為了解被愛的感覺，所以才能發現最愛你的人；
當你經歷過愛人與被愛，學會了愛，才會知道什麼是你需要的，
也才會找到最適合你，能夠相處一輩子的人。
但很悲哀的，在現實生活中，這三個人通常不是同一個人；
你最愛的，往往沒有選擇你；
最愛你的，往往不是你最愛的；
而最長久的，偏偏不是你最愛也不是最愛你的，
只是在最適合的時間出現的那個人。
你，會是別人生命中的第幾個人呢？
沒有人是故意要變心的，他愛你的時候是真的愛你，
可是他不愛你的時候也是真的不愛你了，
他愛你的時候沒有辦法假裝不愛你；
同樣的，他不愛你的時候也沒有辦法假裝愛你 。
當一個人不愛你要離開你，
你要問自己還愛不愛他，
如果你也不愛他了，千萬別為了可憐的自尊而不肯離開；
如果你還愛他，你應該會希望他過得幸福快樂，
希望他跟真正愛的人在一起，絕不會阻止，
你要是阻止他得到真正的幸福，就表示你已經不愛他了，
而如果你不愛他，你又有什麼資格指責他變心呢？
愛不是佔有，
你喜歡月亮，不可能把月亮拿下來放在臉盆裡，
但月亮的光芒仍可照進你的房間。
換句話說，你愛一個人，也可以用另一種方式擁有，
讓愛人成為生命裡的永恆回憶，
如果你真愛一個人，就要愛他原來的樣子─愛他的好，也愛他的壞：
愛他的優點，也愛他的缺點，
絕不能因為愛他，就希望他變成自己所希望的樣子，
萬一變不成就不愛他了。
真正愛一個人是無法說出原因的，
你只知道無論何時何地、心情好壞，你都希望這個人陪著你；
真正的感情是兩人能在最艱苦中相守，也就是沒有絲毫要求。
畢竟，感情必須付出，而不是只想獲得；
分開是一種必然的考驗，
如果你們感情不夠穩固，只好認輸，
真愛是不會變成怨恨的。
兩人在談情說愛的時候，
最喜歡叫對方發誓，許下承諾我們為什麼要對方發誓，
就是因為我們不相信對方，我們根本不相信情人，
而這些山盟海誓又很不切實際：
海枯石爛、地老天荒，都不能改變我對你的愛!
明知道海不會枯、石不會爛、地不會老、天不會荒；
就算會，也活不到那時候。
許下諾言的時候千萬注意，不要許下可以實現的諾言，
最好是承諾做不到的事，
反正做不到的，隨便說說也不要緊，
請記住：”不可能實現的諾言最動人”
在愛情裡，說的是一套，做的是另一套；
講的人不相信，聽的人也不相信。
你呢？找到了第幾個？
茫茫人海中，你遇見了誰？誰又遇見了你
Saturday, September 11, 2010
Courage to tender
I Finally got the courage to tender my resignation letter on 2 September 2010 to my boss, I suppose to give her on 31 August and 1 September 2010, because this two days My boss never come, MC or Annual Leave? Not very sure.... lol... When I told my boss I would like to tender my resignation, my boss get a shock, and change face, ask me why.
I told her, I have a better offered and trying to adapt new working environment.
So she ask whether I serving one month or immediately, I told her, I serve one month, as my new company can wait for me one month.
My last day @ G & W will be on 22 September 2010, My first day @ ICPAS-SAA will be on 4 Oct 2010
Alot of feeling MAKES me confuse, Leaving this company makes me feel sad, memorable days no more. abit 舍不得！不知道我的最后一天，会伤心，难过，哭了吗？ 这里就像是我第二个家，在这四年两个月，学到很多东西，同事都对我不错，对我体贴。我有好多干妈！哈哈！
Linda Mummy, Candy Jie Jie, Janet Mummy, Doris Jie Jie, Mdm Heng mummy(Looks alike with my mum)..last but not least, My another 干吗-Ms Lim(My boss)-Contracts Manager.
Thank you for all this years so care and concern me. :）
我很开心遇到好的同事，Ｌｉｎｄａ Ｍｕｍｍｙ， when my mum passed away that period, she take care of me. Her husband cook for my share too(Lunch).... For many months, until I so paiseh, than I say no need, Her husband is a good cook, Yummy....
Thanks Linda Mummy and Linda husband(another daddy). Haha.. So fortunate.
我觉得我自己好幸运。 我永远不会忘记你们的！
俗语说的对，这是人生的过程，必经之路，喜怒哀乐，这也是成长的过程！
我也不能永远待在同一间公司， 我还年轻，应该学多一点东西，不要让自己做会后悔的事！
在新的公司，难免我会感到陌生，紧张与害怕，不知道习惯吗？同事会友善吗？老板会凶吗？我真的希望一切都顺顺利利，希望会有贵人相助。希望我会更坚强，更努力！加油瑷菱！
拜拜！
I told her, I have a better offered and trying to adapt new working environment.
So she ask whether I serving one month or immediately, I told her, I serve one month, as my new company can wait for me one month.
My last day @ G & W will be on 22 September 2010, My first day @ ICPAS-SAA will be on 4 Oct 2010
Alot of feeling MAKES me confuse, Leaving this company makes me feel sad, memorable days no more. abit 舍不得！不知道我的最后一天，会伤心，难过，哭了吗？ 这里就像是我第二个家，在这四年两个月，学到很多东西，同事都对我不错，对我体贴。我有好多干妈！哈哈！
Linda Mummy, Candy Jie Jie, Janet Mummy, Doris Jie Jie, Mdm Heng mummy(Looks alike with my mum)..last but not least, My another 干吗-Ms Lim(My boss)-Contracts Manager.
Thank you for all this years so care and concern me. :）
我很开心遇到好的同事，Ｌｉｎｄａ Ｍｕｍｍｙ， when my mum passed away that period, she take care of me. Her husband cook for my share too(Lunch).... For many months, until I so paiseh, than I say no need, Her husband is a good cook, Yummy....
Thanks Linda Mummy and Linda husband(another daddy). Haha.. So fortunate.
我觉得我自己好幸运。 我永远不会忘记你们的！
俗语说的对，这是人生的过程，必经之路，喜怒哀乐，这也是成长的过程！
我也不能永远待在同一间公司， 我还年轻，应该学多一点东西，不要让自己做会后悔的事！
在新的公司，难免我会感到陌生，紧张与害怕，不知道习惯吗？同事会友善吗？老板会凶吗？我真的希望一切都顺顺利利，希望会有贵人相助。希望我会更坚强，更努力！加油瑷菱！
拜拜！
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